As they wait for another BBNaija season to continue, Reality TV star Tega has now jumped into the current trend of breakups and divorce.
Her reaction is a direct reaction because of Chacha Eke and Funke Akindele’s marital saga which is currently breaking the internet.
In her words;
“I’D RATHER HAVE MY SINGLE LIFE THAN SOME OF THE NDI “MY MARRIAGE WILL WORK OR IS WORKING” MARRIAGE PLS, I AM OF THE 2% THAT WILL SAY NO TO RUBBISH.
IT’S EITHER 100% INVESTMENT OR NOR, DON’T COME TELLING ME I SHOULD ENDURE, DEAR MAN DO NOT ENDURE, DEAR WOMAN DO NOT ENDURE (IF YOU LIKE O) IF YOU BOTH AIN’T BRINGING 100% TO THE TABLE THEN GTFO, I CAN BE A FOOL FOR U BUT IF I DON’T SEE SAME, I DON GO.
MUTUAL RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING IT IS FOR ME THANKS.”
What I learnt after taking break from social media – BBNaija Peace
In other news,
former BBNaija star, Peace Ogor, has revealed that social media is a springboard to self-doubt and self-insufficiency.
Recalled that the reality TV star took a break from social media with an excuse of rebooting and gaining back her self-belief to move forward.
Narrating her experience, she said, “I learnt that we all need a break! It’s refreshing. The world is so fast paced and even faster paced on social media. This makes it so easy for self-doubt and self-insufficiency to creep in. But that break gave me a room to re-strategise and give myself the necessary pep talk to keep it moving.
“For me it was a combination of family time, sufficient rest, more working, planning and executions. You’ll see what I came up with soon, it truly wasn’t all rest.”
Sending her piece of advise other women on what to do if they are in a toxic sign in their relationships.
Ogor said, “I recently did a skit with some friends concerning this topic and we can all agree that it’s sensitive because of the damaging power that it carries. Abusive and toxic relationships could be physical, sexual or emotional and it doesn’t happen overnight, it takes time.
“It is nurtured and 98% of the time it is intentional. Unfortunately, as a woman our gender is the majority that suffers from this phenomenon and what that means is that we have to stay alert at all times so we can detect the patterns at the early stages. Once the signs are noticed, exit the relationship physically and don’t look back.”
“It’s been a whirlwind of a journey. It’s interesting because two years ago I was this girl constantly fighting to be heard and make something out for herself. Today, I’m still that girl constantly trying to improve her yesterday self, relish her present self and work to ameliorate the living conditions for her future self.
“The fame that comes with the BB9ja show I had a bitter-sweet experience with and this is because it’s such a trade-off. The downside being losing 95% of your privacy while the upside is the access you get. This access creates room for endless opportunities and for me the compromise is worth it,” she said.